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Illustration by Meital Shushan

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This poem by James McDermott explores how families teach us gender, sexuality and shame. Illustration by Meital Shushan.

I lie on the floor of the living room

in my family home to play with my

two year old niece who calls my father nan

 

dad my sixty year old father calls her

princess i’m five when father calls me sis

sy for wearing wellies on the wrong feet

 

father puts her in a pink dress the hu

man eye can distinguish ten million dif

ferent colours father teaches her not

 

to colour outside the lines humans are

the only animals who can draw straight

lines father taught me how to draw stick men

 

in black and blue their heads empty white space

three point five billion different men are

alive suicide race hate their biggest

 

killers father reads my niece a fairy

story which ends happy when the boy gets

the passive girl I’m ten when father calls me

 

a fairy for wanting to be snow white

there are 450 species

of animal that show signs of queerness

 

only 1 species is homophobic

I read my phone in the UK women

make up 22% of the boys

 

in blue I was stopped searched for being dressed

as a woman 86% have

been assaulted I was punched for being

 

my niece rips off her dress tears up the book

leaves her dressing up box for my father’s

tool box takes his hammer to redraw him

 

This poem appeared in The Family Issue of Popshot Quarterly. On sale now.


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